Thursday, November 4, 2010

Touching Strangers: A Creepily Wonderful Concept

 

Touching Strangers: A Creepily

 

Wonderful Concept

 

TouchingStrangers 34-490x620 by Richard Renaldi
(Click for viewing the full set)
“Richard Renaldi  gets two or more strangers on the street and asks them to pose for a photograph while touching each other. It’s fascinating to see how some people are visibly uncomfortable, while others look completely at ease – like old friends, or lovers. Check out his photos…” by Brad Horn NPR

"Jesus Came And Touched Them..."

He touched them for many different reasons, but the gospels are clear that Jesus' example includes touching other people, and not just our fellow disciples. Then he commanded us "to do as I have done."  A command Peter again presents to Christians again in one of his epistles.

The American adverse response to touching, especially by men, is unprecedented in the rest of the world.  According to scripture it is disobedience to your saviour.  Remember American culture never trumps Christ.  Christ always trumps cultural.

Brad Horn In His Article About Renaldi and "Touching Strangers" States:

 For the complete article click here.
Holding the hand of a stranger is a creepy kind of wonderful. And asking strangers to touch each other might only seem creepy — but it has produced an awkwardly wonderful series by fine art photographer Richard Renaldi. "Touching Strangers," as he calls it, explores the physical buffer we use to feel comfortable around people we don't know — or in this case, the lack of a buffer.
"Generally when you ask two people to touch, they're going to do one of two things," the New York City-based artist explains. "They're either going to hold hands or put their arms around each other. But I think there can be much more interesting ways to touch each other."
So Renaldi traipses around New York or wherever he finds himself — Texas, Illinois, California, Florida — with his 8x10 view camera (a monster of an object — think Ansel Adams under a black cloth), looking for people who will put their hands on one another. How that happens, exactly, is different each time...
But this series isn't rooted in an art-school fascination with the obtuse — it's rooted in Renaldi's lamentation over one specific thing: our separation.
"Touching Strangers" drew inspiration from another project — a book called "Dear Friends, American Photographs Of Men Together From 1840-1918." He noticed not only how affectionate the men seemed, but also how they appeared completely relaxed about it.
"And when you look at those pictures you realize, 'Oh my goodness — This isn't what men do now,' " he says. "If you go to another country, you see men holding hands. I think they used to do that in America until something changed here..."
"Something I get a lot of, is people [wondering], 'What would I have done if I was asked? Would I have touched that person?' And I think that's really kind of cool."
Since his dedication to the project seems matched only by his wanderlust, you may want to come up with an answer to that question yourself. Indeed, Renaldi may soon be approaching a stranger near you. The result will be ... touching.

Thursday, July 8, 2010

Try This Drug! If You're Man Enough!


No!  I am not advocating opiates!  I am advocating responsible religion!
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Religion does not have to be the opium of the people;
it can be the poetry of the people.
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[Samir Selmanovic: Religion Needs Atheism]
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People like drugs - especially opiate based drugs - for the same reason Carl Marx called religion the opiate of the people. 

The following excerpt from Chocolate to Morphine: Understanding Mind Active Drugs [by
Andrew Weil, MD and Winifred Rosen] provides amazing insights:


DRUGS ARE FASCINATING because they can change our awareness. The basic reason people take drugs is to vary their conscious experience. Of course there are many other ways to alter consciousness, such as listening to music, making music, dancing, fasting, chanting, exercising, surfing, meditating, falling in love, hiking in the wilderness (if you live in a city), visiting a city (if you live in the wilderness), having sex, daydreaming, watching fireworks, going to a movie or play, jumping into cold water after taking a hot sauna, participating in religious rituals ... changing consciousness is something people like to do. Human beings, it seems, are born with a need for periodic variations in consciousness. The behavior of young children supports this idea. Infants rock themselves into blissful states; many children discover that whirling, or spinning, is a powerful technique to change awareness; some also experiment with hyperventilation (rapid, deep breathing) followed by mutual chest-squeezing or choking, and tickling to produce paralyzing laughter. Even though these practices may produce some uncomfortable results, such as dizziness or nausea, the whole experience is so reinforcing that children do it again and again ...  Since children all over the world engage in these activities, the desire to change consciousness does not seem to be a product of a particular culture but rather to arise from something basically human. As children grow older they find that certain available substances put them in similar states. The attractiveness of drugs is that they provide an easy, quick route to ... states of consciousness marked by feelings of euphoria, lightness, self transcendence, concentration, and energy. People who never take drugs also seek out highs. In fact, having high experiences from time to time may be necessary to our physical and mental health, just as dreaming at night seems to be vital to our well being. Perhaps that is why a desire to alter normal consciousness exists in everyone and why people pursue the experiences even though there are sometimes uncomfortable side effects.

Feelings of well being.  Pain relief. altered awareness. Self transcendence.  Relief from anxiety, depression, boredom, lethargy, even insomnia.  These sound like a list of things the practice of religion often brings.  In fact, think about it, in Christ, under the influence of the Holy Spirit, we Christians experience most of these altered states of being.  You can also find biblical examples of, or calls to pursue, these changes in our condition or perceptions.  Many are listed as fruits of a genuine relationship with God and/or spiritual transformation.  Fascinating!

Seems religion has a chance to be a lot less destructive opiate than any drugs we use!



So Why Not!

Why not claim, exclaim, and share with others our God given "altered states of consciousness," altered state of being?

Why not study these "opiates" of religion and discover how God has provided them to take care of basic human needs?  Needs that are part of our created being?  Needs created by the fall?

Why not encourage one another to embrace and experience these biblical, divine gifts of our faith?

Why get so offended by Karl Marx, and those who quote him? 

 After all Marx got it right!  And religion, true religion, is a lot less destructive than most of the other ways we humans pursue these same goals, these same altered states of being.

Saturday, October 17, 2009

Are You Bright Enough To Act On This One?

It's Time . . .

To Enter The Twilight Zone!


FIRST, Men, You Need To Get A Grip On Reality

Prayer of the Modern Woman
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Before I lay me down to sleep,

I pray for a man, who's not a creep,

One who's handsome, smart and strong,

One who loves to listen long,

One who thinks before he speaks,

One who'll call, not wait for weeks.

I pray he's gainfully employed,

When I spend his cash, won't be annoyed.

Pulls out my chair and opens my door,

Massages my back and begs to do more.

Oh! Send me a man who'll make love to my mind,

Knows what to answer to "How big is my behind?"

I pray this man will love me to no end,

And always be my very best friend.

Author Unknown
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Prayer of the Modern Man
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I pray for a deaf-mute nymphomaniac with huge boobs

Who is a good cook and owns a bass boat.

This doesn't rhyme, and I don't give a flip.

Author Unknown
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Are You Man Enough:
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Man, created in the image of God,
Has been created to chose to nourish and fulfill woman.
[Look it up.  It's there!]
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The prayers above are a bit silly and, by the man, overstated.
[well maybe not!]
From the prayer by the woman, men, there's a lot you can learn.
A lot to remember!
But if you fulfill her prayer - Be careful!
God just might fulfill yours too!
Or surprise you with
more, better,
than you
expect.
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No one falls in love by choice, it is by chance. No one stays in love by chance, it is by work.
 And no one falls out of love by chance, it is by choice.
[Author Unknown ]


Thursday, September 10, 2009

The Damage Of An Unresponsive Foundation

The Foundation For Life
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Emotionally unresponsive parents
are often much more concerned
about obedience from the child
than the needs or wishes
of the child.
[How People Grow, by Dr. Henry Cloud and Dr. John Townsend]
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A man may realize his parents have been emotionally unresponsive to him all his life. He may see how this unresponsiveness has made his relational life difficult, as he has not been connected enough to his inner self to connect with others. As he understands this, he may them become obsessed with trying to get his parents to see what they did to him, or to get them to apologize, or even to get them to re-parent him and provide for him what they did not when he was a boy. In this way they put their hearts under the power of the very ones who injured him.
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Good relationships do involve confronting, forgiving, and reconciling. However, ... not (when using these is) letting the other person control them.
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An authoritarian parenting style tends to equate obedience with love, requiring strict adherence to structures and rules as a way of showing that love. Often this type of parenting style is associated with more rigid forms of religious belief, where strict parenting regimes can be supported by scriptural references . . .
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Inside and outside the church I have been a friend to too many young men and boys just like those the Consistent Parenting Advice site and Drs. Cloud and Townsend describe. The way they act out whether Christian or not mirrors one another. It is heart breaking to those of us to whom they look for friendship and understanding. And yet, time and time again they go back to seek the approve or empathy of the very persons whose unemotional responses created the quick sand into which their lives are sinking. More of the same will never fill the void - no matter how many Bible verses they quote or "Christian" standards they appeal to. Until these young men find secure, gracefilled relationships, they will never be able to live in obedience to God or scripture. Until they can accept that they can not get from "home" the wholeness they need and crave and learn that that is alright, all parents have flaws, and learn to find the missing pieces in their relationship with God and grace filled Christians, their life, in one way or another continue to churn.
It is time for God's men to adopt these emotionally "fatherless" children and lead them to the rich soil of growth by grace.

Tuesday, July 28, 2009

Sexual Tension: What's Good Enough For Me ?


Puberescent Boys - Handle With Care
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When Christ, Culture, Physical Body, And Social Pressure Collide !
It Takes MORE Than Rules To Survive Pure Or Even Want To Be Obedient
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                                                       We Used To Sing A Little Song:
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God said it
And I believe it
And that's good enough for me.
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But When We Hit Puberty It Suddenly Becomes:
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                                                                       God said it.
                                                    But that's not good enough for me!
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God's Plan, God's Good Enough,
Is Not Good Enough For Us Men - What ??
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We must not be doing
                                                                     something right.
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Our God is not good enough ??
Not strong enough ??
Not helpful enough ??
Where does that reality come from ??
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Scripture indicates that when we fall
We need Discipline - i.e., training.
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Training is God's answer to sin.
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(We are assuming here that there is in place a genuine personal love toward God.)
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An athlete does not become good enough without training.
A corporate officer does not become good enough without training.
A doctor does not become good enough without training.
A skilled trades worker does not become good enough without training.
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No worker becomes good enough without training.
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God does not become good enough without training - uh, WHAT ?
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          God is good enough or he is not God !!!
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   Men cannot become good enough
without training !!
Boys cannot be prepared to     
     handle puberty without a lot of
multi-disciplinary training !!
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TRAIN Up A Boy!
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Training Usually Majors On The Process Required To
Be Strong Enough To Win.
Training Usually Minors On Rules And Never Isolates The Do's And
Don'ts From The Preparation And Conditioning Need For Those Rules To Become Nearly Instinctual.
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TRAIN Up A Boy!
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The Words of Our Heavenly Father:
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Bind them upon your heart forever;
fasten them around your neck.
When you walk, they will guide you;
when you sleep, they will watch over you;
when you awake, they will speak to you.
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For these commands are a lamp,
this teaching is a light,
and the corrections of discipline
                                 are the way to life,
keeping you from the immoral woman,
from the smooth tongue of the wayward wife.
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Do not lust in your heart after her beauty
or let her captivate you with her eyes,
for the prostitute reduces you to a loaf of bread,
and the adulteress preys upon your very life.
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Can a man scoop fire into his lap
without his clothes being burned?
Can a man walk on hot coals
without his feet being scorched?
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So is he who sleeps with another man's wife;
no one who touches her will go
                                        unpunished.
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TRAIN UP A MAN !!
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ARE YOU MAN ENOUGH TO TRAIN UP A MAN ?
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What Is Good Enough For You?
For the Boys God Puts In Your Life To Train !

Wednesday, July 15, 2009

Are You Man Enough To Tip A Sacred Cow ?

Today's Mental Image:
Sometimes the greatest battles in God's church
result from "sacred cows" - whether that
is a person, a belief, a traditon, or some
other manifestation of stubborn
resistence to God
moving as he
wants.
We must remember that sacred cow tipping is
both and art and a battle.  It requires
boldness born by the Holy
Spirit - not fleshly
frustration.
And
it requires
strength of spirit, mind
soul, and character, to fight the
good fight.  A high tolerance for pain
and an outpouring of the Balm of Gilead
to heal the wounds and broken hearts that always
occur on the battle field both before and
after finding, or getting access to the
cow(s).  Even the apostle Paul
declared that the battle
is so exhausting
that but for
faith
he
himself
would have run
away and staying he
experience despair to the
point of almost
death!
And so I ask -
Are You Man Enough To Tip A Sacred Cow !
Manly enough to take a stand and
then stand.
Strong enough to weather
the virulent personal, family and
other attacks by the
Enemy and by
the sacred
cow
and it guardians.
You'll never walk alone,
but are you man
enough to keep
walking
when
it
seems
like you are alone?
In your sacred cow tipping -
To God be the glory.
To him belongs
the
VICTORY !!

Friday, July 3, 2009

Are You Man Enough To Correctly Train A Child ?

Today's Mental Image:
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        Train up a child in the way he should go -
        And he will lovingly embrace rebirth and transformation.
        He will long to go to God's embrace
        To at last be made into a new creation (transformed).
        Train up a child in the way he should go -
        And he will follow God and God alone
        As he sheds "childish things" -
        The rules and mannerisms you have taught him.
        For after maturity all things must come from Christ alone.
        Nonetheless even then they can only come redemptively
        By the empowerment of the Holy Spirit
        In a heart sold out to God.
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